Roger, my first recollection of you is, as a little boy, craning my head to see your tall figure standing over me. I was shy and quiet, you were charming, thoughtful, and memorable. You always made me feel special. As your Godson (gosh, weren’t I lucky!), every one of my birthdays garnered a special card in the mail. Not only was I blessed to have you as a Godfather, but as you and Frances did everything as a wonderful team; I felt the good fortune of gaining her as a second Godmother too. As the years passed (and this quiet boy started to have a voice), you remained the same man. Always engaged, always invested, and always someone to trust. A hearty hello, followed by a knowing chuckle was how you always chose to greet me. Occasionally in-person, but more often via phone. Despite what may have been happening in your life at the time, I never once remember you being anything less than upbeat during our chats. I’m sure your nearest and dearest saw the occasional failing; however, I did not. For my entire life, you remained a profoundly positive presence.
You were (and will) be forever looked up to by me. When I heard of your passing, I felt a deep sadness. I’m sorry I can’t pay my respects to you in-person today. It was the least you deserved from me. Alas, these written words will have to suffice.
My final thought to you and your wonderful family is as follows: One of your many gifts was how engaged you always were with whomever was lucky enough to share your company. I feel so blessed that you were part of my life. A minuscule part of yours, perhaps (if you were reading this, you might say a beyond mammoth part!), but we’ll have that conversation sometime in the future. For now, farewell friend. You were someone beyond special!
From your second favourite Godson!
M Lally
23/12/2024
