The obituary notice of Kathryn CARTER

Hi mum, how are you? It’s your favourite month isn’t it Christmas time. But I just don’t feel the magic this year as you’re not here.

I’ve put up your tree and your little decorations and got you some things made because you were Mrs Claus.

It’s quite sad to know you won’t be here to see them.

Ruby misses you so much I’ve started to call her Trudy but I don’t think she likes it because you use to call her Trudy the elf. Your little helper.

Bailey got to go the vets but I have to pay for the procedure the insurance won’t. It just feels like one thing after another mum. Just don’t catch a break.

I’m still doing your lottery so fingers crossed they eventually do come in.

It’s been a very lonely time shopping for stuff for Christmas because that’s something we always done together. I have my good days and bad days but then am back to the dreaded feeling that you’re never coming back and it’s so bloody sad. It breaks my heart.

Stephen Michael has now become my shopping buddy now so we both go after work on a Friday which is fun. He hates it yanno what he’s like haha.

Ruby got you a sleigh made for your urn to sit on too because we know how much you love Christmas.

Your never far from my thoughts mum and your always in my heart. I can’t believe it’s nearly been 7 months since I last heard your voice or held your hand.

I miss our chats and our talks and I miss the fact that you’re not here now to help with what ever problem life throws at me.

Life is truly unfair mum.

Never forget how much that I love you

Always and forever mum

Charlene

x x x x x

Hi mum, my good it’s Been bloody ages since I seen your face or heard your voice. It’s bizzare to think you havnt nearly been here in nearly 6 months. Time doesn’t seem real. Where are you mum? Are you ok? I just can’t get my head round I will never see your face again.

It was Halloween and ruby dressed you up we hope you like haha well am sure you did the Skelton fell over was that you?.

I hope your ok mum where ever you are.

Never forget how much I love you.

I miss you so much.

Love you always

Charlene

Hi mum how are you? It’s been awhile. I’ve gone back to work now I’m two weeks in and it was strange at first.

I was expecting to see you drive by and do your little wave with your red coat and your smile but you didn’t.

Ruby started by uni she really like it and has some new friends. She always takes you with her so you can experience uni how cute it she.


Life very weird without you mum I miss you so much.

It’s nearly your favourite time of year and where getting a sleigh made with your name on it so you can sit on it with your urn.

We also got you a nutcracker and it’s a snow globe on top and it reminded me of you and I knew you would like it.

Bailey not happy that am back to work either he keeps barking all the time so he’s slowly getting use to you not being there and sitting with him or napping your little chausa boy.

I hope you still watching over us and never far away mum.

Life is so unfair.

I miss you mum

Love you always

Charlene xxxxx

Hi mum sorry it’s been a while it’s a very strange time to be honest. I just keep waiting to hear from you. I keep calling out your name and talking but I can’t seem to feel or see if you’re here.

Ruby turned 19 mum, the first birthday without you. It was such a hard day but we went to have breakfast and then went to Chester for the afternoon on a boat ride and played mini golf. Ruby wanted to spend the day out the house so that’s what we did.


She got amazing grades in school and got in to uni so that was amazing. I am so sorry you got to miss all that. But I hope you was with us through it all.

Stephen Michael got a new job he looks better and a lot more happier which is good. Just watch over him mum yanno little blue boy haha.

Mum I along to hear your voice or for your presence but nothing ever comes. I just think life is so unfair why you mum?.

I havnt a clue what am doing am in a whirlwind some days are better than others. I just wish you was here.

Il report back soon mum of all the antics that happens. Ruby starts uni soon and I go back to work. That will be very strange.

Sleep tight mum

I love you mum
Always and forever
Charlene 💖

I miss you so much Nan…I wish you were still here, I hope you’re doing okay wherever you are…I got into Uni 🎉 and I’m gonna do what both of us enjoyed- Forensic Science (I’ll be your own little Grisom from CSI 😂), I hope you’re proud of me…I miss you everyday, Saturdays aren’t the same without you, nothing is…I miss your words of wisdom and encouragement and comfort…I wish it was you still here…

I’m turning 19 in 3 days and it’s gonna be the worst birthday ever because you’re not gonna be there…but I know you’ll be grooving in spirit, I hope you’re doing okay, I miss you and love you forever 💕